ravengrace wrote

My friends.. two in particular. They're both over a decade older than me and have taught me a lot. Never experienced the level of respect for my self autonomy until I met these people and they introduced me to anarchy. My chosen family :) I learn so much just by talking to them and they teach me a lot of skills with computers and all kinds of stuff. ! We work together help each other and our communities. There are a lot of great authors , and activists out there but having people by my side to put this knowledge into action is he most inspiring thing I can think of.


ravengrace wrote

permanently deleting my account is the only thing that has worked to stop my facebook addiction. Other than deleting your accounts, deleting aps, you can also install an ap that locks you out of certain aps for a certain time period. I forget what it's called but I'm sure its not that hard to find. Also sometimes I use an ap made to prevent you from drunk texting to stop looking at my phone.


ravengrace wrote

I am so sorry that this happened to you and it's gross that this happened. If this happens again I would suggest firmly telling her to stop and back away. I've learned to say STOP. I DO NOT LIKE THAT. Really loud so that it embarasses the person and step back. If she doesn't stop you can push her off you without hurting her.

To look at this from a feminist perspective .. it's actually a by product of patriarchy that men are expected to like every sexual advance. Men learn that from other men and women learn it from men too. Men use their sexuality and women's sexuality to oppress women. I'm sexually harassed almost everyday by men.

Feminism isn't thinking that women are perfect angels who can do no wrong. It's understanding that women are human beings who's existance is not to serve men. If you think women are always good and always victims sorry that's not feminism...


ravengrace wrote

Masturbation is natural and healthy.

But watching too much porn can rewire your brain so that it makes is hard to have a healthy sexual relationship with someone because your brain is overstimulated and you aren't in reality anymore. But you can still maturbate without porn lol.

If you have a problem try getting some help ... Read self help books or see a therapist but don't shame others for masturbating or promote not masturbating at all...


ravengrace wrote

I have hated every boss I've ever had except one. I feel no sympathy for them ! Even the so called family business fuck their paycheck and their kids piano lessons. They wanted me to chase shoplifters out of the store lol. And told me I had to buy a coffee for my mean coworker to make her like me . wtf