hasbrochem
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by ziq in Before anything, let's discuss /f/shoplifting by mofongo
Fuck you and your bullying
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to Before anything, let's discuss /f/shoplifting by mofongo
Funny thing is, the exmormons community is by and large a bunch of fucking liberals but they get it. They understand that trans femmes at higher risk, something you all seem to not fucking care about or understand. They'll stand with that community and help protect them. You all are a bunch of fuckinh cowards.
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to Before anything, let's discuss /f/shoplifting by mofongo
Well, glad to see this whole thing has been pointless. Carry on. Fuck the trans femme community. Bunch of fucking hypocrite wannabe rads. Fuck you all. Glad to know you don't really care when it comes down to it. Piss up a fucking rope into a high wind.
hasbrochem wrote (edited )
you didn't and don't deserve any of what happened. They're garbage people. None of what happened was your fault. There's nothing wrong with you. I'm glad you're here and thank you for being willing to share this with us.
Have you reached out to a support group in your area by chance?
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by emma in Have you seen this thread by Reddit_help
Blue is okay, I prefer black but blue is still good
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to by TexRex
is that address correct? It's a prefab home in kind of a lower middle class neighborhood. I found their fb profile and some other stuff, this guys is about 30 years old, white male, votes repub (not surprising considering where they live). but they're selling broken down and second hand shit on fb. doesn't seem like someone pulling in six figures. just want to make sure this is correct before anything else.
hasbrochem wrote
this really sucks and I hope you'll be okay.
have you tried marijuana? I know a couple of people with some sleep issues and they either smoke or use tabs/oil to help them sleep at night.
if you're in the usa, and you're not already doing this, maybe some of this could help alleviate some pressure? if there's something else you feel you could use to help, don't hesitate to ask and there's a bunch of us here that can try to help scrounge up resources and options for you.
https://www.payingforseniorcare.com/paid-caregiver/elderly-parents.html
https://www.caring.com/articles/payment-for-family-caregiver/
https://www.caregiving.org/resources/
I know you didn't ask and I apologize if I'm overstepping in offering this.
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by cje in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
ah hahahahaha, you responding to wrong user, dip shit fuck face. nice reverse psychology too
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by celebratedrecluse in by !deleted13453
they've been temp banned for a few days so won't be able to respond
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by existential1 in Seeking Academic Advice as a Physics Major by ordinaryDrain
no they don't, they talk about how their graduates who didn't go to grad school have a 90% employment rate...and don't mention that they work at a bank, in a large corporation or doing something else that has zero physics involved.
I know a person who worked at CERN on one of the ATLAS projects for their phd. they now work at a coffee shop, just got tired of all the bullshit. physics is really interesting but unless you're willing to do medical physics, for example, which is one of the less sexy areas, it's going to be a bumpy fucking road.
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by BioDOME in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
We've been warning you and all your alts for some time now. You didn't take us serious. You're an enabler and part of the problem. Fuck off.
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by !deleted1665 in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
See point 2 where this is explained
hasbrochem wrote
The average gps for physics majors is around 2.5 but that won't get you in graduate school. A physics degree will get you a job but it won't be doing physics most likely. Those kinds jobs usually want someone with an engineering degree. I've watched friends go through this more than a few times.
I would maybe find a job or two that you think you might like and talk to them honestly about what they look for in the person they hire. There are a ton of people with physics degrees right now and the market is flooded. At my small unknown undergrad college, there were over 500 PhDs that applied for the one teaching position they had open. Just something to think about.
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by !deleted8445 in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
Yet here we are. Thanks for speaking up
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by !deleted13453 in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
I'm sorry we haven't done a better job of listening
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by BrowseDuringClass1917 in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
Because I tend to react poorly to your ignorance, I'm not going to engage with you further as I don't want a repeat of what happened before (and which I'm still sorry I did and was a part of) and hope that you can consider what others outside yourself experience and understand that their lives and experiences are just as valid as your own. Best of luck to you. This is me disengaging from you here. Cheers.
hasbrochem OP wrote (edited )
Reply to comment by Green_Mountain_Makhno in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
Thanks, an important point
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by Green_Mountain_Makhno in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
Absolutely and thank you.
Just one thing, these aren't my suggestions or proposals. This is our trans femme comrades and they have been saying these for some time now.
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by mofongo in Friday Free Talk by mofongo
Perhaps you should speak up in my post then so they know this as well because their silence continues to be deafening.
hasbrochem OP wrote
Reply to comment by BrowseDuringClass1917 in Non-trans person listing out some of the suggestions from trans person(s) in the hopes people might fucking listen this time by hasbrochem
So because you're in a position of privilege and feel fine we're just supposed to, what, ignore everyone else? If that's not some fucked up privileged logic and reason I don't know what is.
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by Cheeks in Friday Free Talk by mofongo
this has more to do with ignoring particularly the voices of our trans femmes and whether this is not only a safe place for them but whether people actually stand on the same side as them and are willing to fight for and with them. as toast already mentioned in another thread by n_n which is about this and not some other shit, gladra and clouds (and others) have gone over this in great detail and on the former's one can still see many of their comments, which have been ignored. again. and again. and again. and again. and again. and... bandaids can't fix a wound that needs stitches or amputation.
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by n_n in I think that we need to get open and talk about the "culture of collectivism and entitlement the chat rooms foster" by n_n
They are reactionaries
FTFY
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to What are your thoughts regarding /f/maoism? by mofongo
Looks like the mod made f/tankie and f/shitanarchistssay as well
They already violated the ToS, so how long do we tolerate them this time?
hasbrochem wrote
Reply to comment by ziq in Before anything, let's discuss /f/shoplifting by mofongo
Fuck off and enjoy your site you're garbage.
This isn't blackmail. This is me yelling you to go fuck yourself as I walk out the door. Fuck you, asshole.