Reply to by BrowseDuringClass1917

Catsforfun wrote

if thats enough for her to be put off from you, then maybe she wasnt that into you in the first place & good riddance?


Catsforfun wrote (edited )

I literally just made my point in a simple & concise sentence. I have no idea how you extracted homophobia from it. It doesn't even mention men or homosexuality. I never said the word "pathological" so stop shoving your stupid words in my mouth & stop making stupid fucking assumptions about my gender and sexuality and whether or not gay men hit on me, troll.


Reply to Mixed Signals by Crusty

Catsforfun wrote

tell her you are into her, feel torn up about mixed signals & and would appreciate it if she would be straightforward with you.


Catsforfun wrote (edited )

yeah i think gay men harrassing straight guys is comparable to straight guys harrassing lesbians, but without the gender power dynamic. It comes from that patriarchal entitlement to other ppls bodies and a denial of the person-being-hitted-upon's own sexual autonomy.

i mean, its fine to flirt with someone, but not taking a no very well & thinking you can change someone's sexuality is entitled and creepy

& I cant wrap my mind around the thing you said about transwomen so sorry cant answer you there