Catsforfun OP wrote

im not trying to pass because i think gender is meh, & how does one even pass as nb?

They meant that my interactions with the world are different bc ppl look at me and gender me how i was assigned & im not trying to be gendered as opposite of what i was assigned.... im not binary-trans but i still dont like being gendered & get dysphoria :/


Reply to Bi or Pan? by nbdy

Catsforfun wrote (edited )

i just id as "queer"

and yeah, i dont like the term bisexual bc it enforces binary, but some people are just comfortable with the word bc it is the word they have been using forever. Still dont like it tho


Catsforfun wrote

i would just ask for feedback. I feel like an asshole a lot of the time, but it's just in my head.

Ask ppl how their day was , and how they have been and jut go from there. Showing an interest in someone's life and wellbeing is nice. Sharing a joke or a story.