Catsforfun wrote

i know what you mean and i feel the same way, but an acknowledgement of something that was a transgression, flaw, or whatever is still worth something. The actually doing better part is worth way more.


Catsforfun OP wrote

im not trying to pass because i think gender is meh, & how does one even pass as nb?

They meant that my interactions with the world are different bc ppl look at me and gender me how i was assigned & im not trying to be gendered as opposite of what i was assigned.... im not binary-trans but i still dont like being gendered & get dysphoria :/