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SnowCode OP wrote

What might help is to get her to talk about what bothers her and validate her feelings (don't suggest 'solutions', but say something to the effect 'that's really hurtful/abusive,' or even things like: 'I can't imagine being in your situation, I'm so sorry you are going through this.' -- or even, get angry on her behalf, if that makes sense).

Yes I feel like I did something bad because of this. I've shared the solutions that I did when I felt bad. But I think you're right.