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fortmis wrote

it became just too tiring

boredom is a similarly effective motivator. sometimes all the tactics in the world won't pull me out of a shit time and then one day i'll wake up and just be like fuck this i'm so bored of having the same bad thoughts all the time ... and something shifts

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tuesday wrote

As for your low confidence, I'm sorry if this is too patronising, but the truth is you'll grow out of it eventually.

Legit the older I get the less I actually care what other people think of what I'm doing when it's actually fully inconsequential to anyone who isn't me. I'm far less capable of being embarrassed about being myself and being authentic than I was when I was younger.

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Bezotcovschina wrote

As for your low confidence, I'm sorry if this is too patronising, but the truth is you'll grow out of it eventually.

HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE?

just kidding... unless?

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lettuceLeafer wrote (edited )

Tbh, I think age helps a bit but there are a ton of insecure adults. I think it takes more than just getting older for a lot of people.

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