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ziq wrote

A lot of asexual ppl have sex because it's not socially acceptable to be in a relationship and not have sex with your partner. It's to please the partner.

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ziq wrote

I think the "feels good" part is probably bullshit. If it felt good they wouldn't be asexual.

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bea wrote

Yeah, pretty much. Aces still feel urges* and masturbate* and they may use sex toys and such for that.
*not all do

The other side of this is when an ace has sex with a person like their romantic partner for example.

I'd describe it as a similar thing to a straight guy having sex with another dude for whatever reason. He may do it, and he may even enjoy the feeling of it, but he still wouldn't be sexually attracted to him, would he? It'd the same for non-sex-repulsed aces having sex with anyone.

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