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rot wrote

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Try to shut him down when he starts that bullshit. Convince your mom to drop him.

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Sunset_Peach wrote

Sometimes I try to say something but I can't push too hard or it'll just make my home an even more hostile place. And I've tried convincing my mom repeatedly, she just keeps giving me vague words about not wanting to be alone and settling. I'm just sitting here hoping he blows up again and does something horrible so she'll finally get rid of him (how fucked up is that, i have to wish for him to do something abusive....)

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rot wrote

If he cheats on her or argues with you enough do you think she'll kick him out? Is there a way for you to leave entirely?

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Sunset_Peach wrote

If he does something sufficiently bad, I think she will (example: he once punched a puppy. mom went nuclear on him). It's funny because I came here to my mom's place because of the same exact situation at my dad's. He married an abuser and she became my step-mom. Now an abuser will become my step-dad if my mom marries him. If this happens, I would have nowhere to go for at least some time.

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