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asterism wrote (edited )

and now bloodrose has left

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desert wrote

i’ve loved her posts and comments for years. and really sad one of the oldest Raddlers had left. they’re almost all gone now

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fortmis OP wrote

oh shit :(

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fortmis OP wrote

that whole situation seemed intense, I wasn't able to see the full convo but I worry the response was disproportionate? You can tell me if you think I'm wrong there?

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Potkea wrote (edited )

What convo was this? Did they leave over a raddle convo that got too intense?

Edit: Yes, seems like it, tho I don’t know the full context so I cannot pass judgement on any party. https://raddle.me/f/mediation/149815

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asterism wrote

Are you asking me personally if I thought it was disproportinate?

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fortmis OP wrote

I'm not sure what I'm asking lol... take it as you wish

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fortmis OP wrote

I do want to say that I hope all this doesn't deter you from feeling like you can share your feelings and stories from your life here. I know it can be really important and special to be able to do that in a space such as this

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asterism wrote

I didnt think it was disproportinate. Styx took it as LL trying to get bloodrose banned. I didnt see it that way and I was thankful for LL because what was said was hurtful even if it wasnt intentional it did come across as defending abuse and I wanted someone else to recognize it. It was a big help to me.

Now I was all square with bloodrose after the apology she posted and I am sad she left. so its disapointing it turned out this way but I personally dont think anyone responded incorrectly

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fortmis OP wrote

It was nice to see you and bloodrose be honest with each other and make peace. Personally I think LL piled it on too hard. Seemed like Bloodrose was doing nothing but apologizing, and in a way that read as pretty sincere, almost immediately after realizing the effect of their comment... And yet LL continued to barate them. Im glad LL supported you, still i wish the conversation could have remained centered between you and bloodrose

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asterism wrote

I personally didnt feel the first comments were sincere I may have been clouded by anger but I still stand by that.

I personally didnt think LL was out of line in that because I honestly was so angry I couldnt even respond and was grateful to feel stood up for.

I also think LL was right to make a mediation thread if only because of the possible effect her comments could have had on people that werent me.

I don't think I want to talk about this any more not saying you've oberstepped in anyway just saying that this is the last I will say about it. I stand by LLs actions. I regret Styx and Bloodrose left. I truly forgive and believe bloodrose and I just want to put this behind me.

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