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bloodrose wrote

So I have to spend lots of time and effort to make friends and the friends being people who I wouldn't like to talk to is probably why my current anti social moods has been going on for so long.

I saw a lovely tiktok last night. It was a young woman saying as an adult the way she made friends is just acted like the person she wanted to be friends with was already her friend until they acquiesced. I thought this was really cool and a strategy I'd like to try buuuut....I haven't met anyone cool enough to just latch onto like that. Sooo...what I'm saying is that I can relate to your sentiment of being antisocial because why put in the effort for someone who isn't cool?