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Raxalor wrote

I need to drop one of my 'friends'.

I don't have any positive interactions with them anymore. Anytime I bring up something I'm looking forward to, they shit on it. When I say that I am having doubts about something they're sure about, they call me ableist terms. Not to mention that they deep-throat boot regularly, often to the point of defending fascist sympathizers.

I don't want to deal with the shit show of telling them to fuck off (it will cause issues in other social circles) and I know that I can't get away with ghosting them.

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zoom_zip wrote

don’t ghost them. just make a decision not to contact them. if they contact you, don’t make a deal about it. just let it fade out naturally. friendships end all the time. just embrace drifting apart.

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Raxalor wrote

There's an unfortunate twist of events that's going to put me in further contact this person that I can't figure out how to avoid :(

Hopefully I can figure something out

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bloodrose wrote

Can you be in contact while minimizing interaction? Like, just not talk about things you care about in front of them during that further contact?

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