zoom_zip OP wrote
Reply to comment by Storyofrachel in coping thread 2: cope harder by zoom_zip
that’s tough. how did she react when you told her how you feel?
Storyofrachel wrote
She said it was maybe something we could talk about later, and she's not the type to blow people off like you'd think saying that would mean. But she only likes me as a friend.
She's stopped saying she loves me (which she meant platonically, but which I still felt).
zoom_zip OP wrote
if you haven't had the conversation yet, maybe just ask her--as a friend--to be as honest as possible with you about the possibility of being more than friends, and if she says that she doesn't think it will happen, at least then you aren't holding out hope, but you have to respect that. until you talk about it, you're just drifting in limbo thinking that maybe one day it might happen.
celebratedrecluse wrote
I think her decision to stop saying "i love you" already has established that there isn't a likely possibility. It is better to move on, than continue to fixate on it, as this may alienate her.
Storyofrachel wrote
:(
celebratedrecluse wrote
Sorry darling
better to rip the band aid off now than later?
Storyofrachel wrote
Well, I already knew she was never going to love me.
It just hurts.
celebratedrecluse wrote
Certainly. I'm sorry to pour salt on that.
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