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veuzi wrote (edited )

Insisting that it was all your work and that you're owed because of it is part of your entitlement issues. Helping her out with her social and professional life doesn't make her owe you her love. I guess you could be right to feel like you have been used in some way, but she could easily feel the same way (considering your attitudes on display here). The reality is that no-one owes you their association in any way: romantic, platonic, professional, sexual. Relationships only work out when all parties are willing to it.

If she doesn't want to be with you now then there is not much you could do about it that wouldn't make it worse. Whatever petty revenge shit you're thinking of doing with her personal information (stalking? doxing?) would probably make things worse for you as well. Your best bet is to move on. With time, she will forget about you and she will have no need to be talking shit about you behind your back.

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veuzi wrote

I know her social medias, were she lives, her email and phone number. What can i do?

Absolutely nothing decent with that information. Let it go and move on. Save yourself some future headache and maybe work on your entitlement issues.

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fortmis wrote

heartbreak can make you want to do bad things.

don't do bad things.

she doesn't owe you anything. I suggest you focus on moving on.

(this is me restraining myself from saying much harsher things in response to this completely inappropriate post)

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lentils wrote

i understand losing people you care about like that feels like shit and i’m really not great with relationship advice but even if someone had done really nice things for me i really wouldn’t want to feel obligated to be in a relationship with them. no one owes anyone a relationship. so i don’t like how you say you want to destroy everything you gave her. acting on that would not be cool.

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