Headstrong Girls and Dependent Boys: Gender Differences in the Labour Market Returns to Child Behaviour
nakedcapitalism.comSubmitted by existential1 in economics (edited )
Interesting supposition that "gender-defiance" has negative consequences irrespective of heteronormative label expectation.
bloodrose wrote
I was a headstrong girl and am a headstrong woman. To the point I was and am consistently called masculine. It is rather annoying because I have a buttload of femininity, too. I was raised with three brothers with neglectful parents who just decided to treat me like the boys. It was probably really good for my emotional state but it has led to problems in the work place.
This question from the researcher, I can answer: it is 1,000% negative perceptions. In a meeting, when someone is giving incorrect facts, men are allowed to say "No, that's not right. Here is the proof that this isn't right." I tried to do this. It is straightforward, non-judgemental and reasonable language. I have been told I have to do it like "I'm sorry, I must be confused. I thought it was this because of this proof. Can you explain to me what I'm missing?" I have had to be trained as an adult to speak like this. And I can tell you once I mastered the female way of doing it, I got promoted, I get recognition, etc.
And it's suuuuuuuuuuuuuuch bullshit.