Hey guys, newbie here. How the heck do you justify your new stuff to your family/spouse? My husband works full-time but we live mostly paycheck to paycheck and all the money from his work goes to an account that he doesn't share with me. My personal checking account however he has access to and gets notified every time I make a purchase. So it's not like the money I spend (or don't spend;) would go unnoticed by him. We filed for bankruptcy last year and I've been irresponsible with money in the past so that's why he doesn't share tons with me BUT he does send me what I need through venmo every week or so. Anyways, we are religious too and he may have an idea that I've gotten some stuff for free but hasn't questioned stuff like body soap, lotion, etc. Just wondering what you may have come up with to tell someone when they ask how you bought it or where this new stuff came from all of a sudden. Thanks!!