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batmanrichard wrote

I use these services sometimes, I'm pretty good at avoiding scams and catfish. Ask me for a $10 donation before meet? No way. I use a google number or borrow a company cell I have access to when I do, anybody that wants to chase my info down through those, good luck. I am paranoid of somebody getting my plate when I'm there or taking pictures, there could be blackmail. If you're actually going to be meeting, there's alot of money in upselling or taking money and chasing them off but there's some personal danger in that. I've been had two or three times like that. It stings but my only option is to get aggressive and I don't do that, some dudes may.

There are guys that donate money online prior but it's not usually much. Write yourself some fake reviews over a period of time and you're more likely to get some of those.

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Catsforfun wrote (edited )

upselling?

edit: like what? "want a finger in your ass, that'll be 50 more bucks thanks"?

why do u buy sex and how do you feel you can do that ethically?

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Dazey wrote

Why is that your business?

Some of us work for men just like him and despite what you've seen on tv most of them are "just guys". He shouldn't be scammed and we shouldn't be scammed. We should team up and scam the government and corporate America.

So John shaming IS also Whore shaming. Please don't do that unless the man has been violent or cheat us!

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Catsforfun wrote

i don't need you to whoresplain to me. I am intimately aware of the types of people who buy sex.

john shaming is not whore shaming lol, all whores john-shame, just not usually to their face.

I am genuinely curious on how an ~anarchist~ in particular could deal with the cognitive dissonance of it... or what part of it is appealing to them? Different people have different types of motivating factors for buying sex and I'm sure some anarchists in some situations can try to justify it to themselves and so I am curious what the justification is

No ethical consumerism under capitalism :/

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batmanrichard wrote

I doubt you're 'intimately aware' of all types of people. You're assuming everyone is some weird pervert and they deserve your derision as a group. For your 'curiousity' though the truth is there's alot of good people born with a lazy eye that develops terrible social anxiety. They can get kind words and intimacy and build up their confidence for life but they have to resort to paying for it. Illegal unfortunately, so double your chance of getting ripped off or criminalized.

Please don't shame others living a different life than you. You are never so intimately aware until you've walked that path yourself.

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Dazey wrote

It's weird someone so poorly understands Anarchists that they don't get or support sex work, but I actually don't care much what your opinion actually is, so you do you Boo.

You have a lot to learn about the less sh*tty parts of the world brah.

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