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amongstclouds wrote

Nooo, I am so sorry to hear, but it's nothing that will keep you down forever. You will grow from this and become stronger than you have ever been!

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chaos wrote

Sounds like she needs to take some parenting classes.

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Catsforfun wrote

That's extremely manipulative, the lying. The best things you can do is to start preparing and planning to be out of their house as soon as you can. This might mean establishing credit, planning for future education or whatever it is you need to not be dependent on them as soon as you become an adult.

The worst mistake I ever made with my abusive parents was to rely on on them, because then I was stuck, isolated and couldn't escape because they sabotaged my independence both actively and through neglect.

Again, I repeat, start preparing and planning, saving money, learning how to take care of your self emotionally and establish healthy friendships because those are what will serve you and prevent you from being trapped in another abusive situation.

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sudo wrote

Oh fuck, I was really happy for you, then I saw the update. That's fucked up.

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jadedctrl wrote

Well, congrats on coming out to her! :)
Good luck with your dad, seriously. I hope it doesn't go too badly...

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PainlessEphemera wrote

It just went badly with my mother. See the update.

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jadedctrl wrote

Shit, that's terrible! I know how you feel... I'm so sorry.
Remember, you won't be in their house for much longer.

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PainlessEphemera wrote

That’s not a consolation for me. I can’t see myself in a week from now, let alone in two years.

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jadedctrl wrote

I know it might not feel like it, but you should know, logically, that it's the case. Just tell yourself a few times every day, "I won't be here for much longer." It will help.