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KacperTheAnarchist wrote

You should part ways with that person. You know the best.

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celebratedrecluse OP wrote

i'm genuinely not sure if this is internalized oppression or not, but my opinion rn is that everyone needs to change and grow at some point in life. i'm willing to work through this with them, if they change their mind after collecting their thoughts and feels, which for now is all they are asking for-- time, and space.

I definitely know i've been there before, needing time and space to react the way I want to in a situation I'm not prepared for at the moment it happens. So maybe things can work out, maybe not. right now it's just a waiting game, it seems to me.

So I'm just gonna give them space and then have a conversation about it in a few days/a week. We still have a functional communication with regards to the housing situation/logistical things, so I should be good for the next few weeks at least.

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