Should I identify as queer?
Without giving away too much detail, I can easily pass as a cishet male. But I don't feel like I really care about identifying with my gender assigned to me at birth, and my sexuality revolves more around biological sex rather than gender. So by definition I might be considered bi, even though I'm only interested in people who are biologically female or maybe intersex. I'm also questioning my romantic orientation which will probably take me years to understand.
I ask because I don't suffer from gender dysphoria, and I am unlikely to run into any issues because of whoever I may have a relationship with. I feel like even though by definition I could be considered queer, I don't want to take away from the struggles that other queer people go through. I have trans and gay friends who actually struggle because they are queer, whereas I don't.
NOISEBOB wrote (edited )
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