Why do a lot of queer/trans people dislike this term so much? I've referred to myself as a femboy. I understand how trap can be bad. Idk, is it invalidating to trans people? I felt good and comfortable with this term. But seeing how some trans people demonize it...I'm like fuck am I just a cross dresser? Do I wanna be a girl? Shits so confusing and when I thought I understood I see people disagree.