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tanattyn wrote

Respectwomen accused me of attacking veganarchist on the false grounds that veganarchist was the sexual harasser; now you're doing the same thing with respectwomen. So you can imagine how sideways my eyes are, when it was an obvious 4chan-ish user doing all the worst shit like the sexual harassment, and y'all were responding to that user in shock that they'd sexually harass me. I'm screenshotting this exchange, this is weird, either I'm matrix-conspiracy-crazy or this entire site usergroup is lowkey sketchy af.

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Defasher wrote

Who is a 4chan user? If you have proof of that, I'll ban them from all my subs but idk who you're talking about fam.

Respectwomen accused me of attacking veganarchist on the false grounds that veganarchist was the sexual harasser; now you're doing the same thing with respectwomen.

So who are you saying is sexually harassing you if not respectw and what does it have to do with this thread? You can't just come into randon threads on random subs and start ranting, no one has the context to understand what your grievance is. We just see you attacking everyone.

You need to take this up in f/meta, following respectw around to attack them whenever they post isn't cool. If they've done something ban worthy, bring it to f/meta's attention so they get banned.

Mods aren't reading every comment you make on subs we don't mod, when you bring feuds to our subs, we don't have the full history of why you're fighting, but we do have to keep shit on topic.

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tanattyn wrote

It's so, predictable, that you're blaming the victim of sexual harassment when the site isn't even built to the point I can message mods privately (my comments complaining about it on f/meta might be deleted as a coverup). And you're trying to discredit me, tell me I'm acting crazy and random, and trying to turn it into a false accusation, and trying to turn it into some way that I'm disrupting site discourse or being unreasonably destructive.

RespectWomen deleted that thread and I didn't have a chance to screenshot it all, and then left a .7z file of it in the comments here. So, pursuing him through random posts was the only reliable way to even partially resolve the issue. He wasn't going to admit anything without being badgered, I had to badger him.

Feminist resistance in a society that is designed to silence rape accusations is ugly, it's ill-behaved, it's crazy-seeming compared to the current order (coincidentally, is patriarchy). You pretend you have no idea how the sophisticated social mechanisms of rape culture work, but you're enacting them, right now, regardless of whether you have some personal malice toward me.

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Defasher wrote

I'm not blaming you for anything or claiming you're making false accusations about being sexually harassed, all I did was ask who sexually harassed you because I don't read every comment on the site. And if respectw aint the one that sexually harassed you then what did they do to you? Just linking to that shitty anti idpol article?

I didn't say you were acting crazy, that's not fair to put on me, but you were acting like a troll as far as anyone that doesn't have the full history of your feud could see.

my comments complaining about it on f/meta might be deleted as a coverup

They're not going to delete your complaints or cover it up if you explain the whole thing in meta, it's not like the admins have anything to do with this mess.

People only get to see one piece of the whole - like this thread where you came in and right away were badmouthing OP. Anyone that hasn't seen the history is gonna think you're trolling. It's not fair of you to expect strangers to know the full history when you haven't explained it to us.

He wasn't going to admit anything without being badgered, I had to badger him.

Okay, but f/poc isn't the place to do that. I/you can make a f/grievances sub for it if you want and direct respectw to it, but I made this sub to cover important issues that affect PoC and when you attack contributers bringing attention to fucked up shit like these ICE shenanigans it makes no one want to contribute here.

You pretend you have no idea how the sophisticated social mechanisms of rape culture work, but you're enacting them, right now, regardless of whether you have some personal malice toward me.

I didn't make any such claim fam. All I did was ask for more information because I haven't seen the comments you're referring to.

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