For better or worse I have some influence on her. My hope is that if I am consistent in calling it out she'll eventually work through it. But who can say.

Also as you can tell I got distracted from responding by arguing with people I don't like for fun. Hopefully you don't feel slighted that I was actively responding to trolls but not you someone I actually like. hah

No worries. My usual assumption is that people get busy and forget. There are a lot of posts here that I want to respond to that I never have. Part of the reason I let my notification count go up is because I really want to respond to people.