Submitted by Zixiken in NonBinary

Just curious how nonbinary fits into your identities. My favorite thing about nonbinary people is the wild diversity we seem to have; it's rare to have two peoples' identities line up in quite the same way.

For me, I'm best summed up as agenderfluid demiandrogyne. Usually I feel agender in a gender-neutral sense, but sometimes flow towards a partial connection to androgyne, and sometimes my connection to gender wanes entirely and I feel more agender in a gender-void sense.

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Syrinx wrote

For me, it is essentially just the least weird general label. I'm not entirely sure how to describe it, perhaps a passive part rather than an active part of my identity if that makes sense. It's just kind of a thing that is there.

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ordinaryDrain wrote

I generally agree with this. Nonbinary seems like the most common term and I have kinda just stuck with it. I use they/them pronouns and most people seem to be pretty respectful about that.

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ordinaryDrain wrote

some of the terminology can be a little fuzzy though considering I am a nonbinary bi person lol

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Majrelende wrote

For me, it does not. I usually only think about gender in relation to myself in the context of the treatment of nonbinary people by other binary people. Maybe I am rather firmly agender.

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Zixiken OP wrote

I think I understand, often if I'm feeling particularly gender-void it's because I'm fed up with people's bullshit, whether that's queerphobic cis people or gatekeeping within the community.

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DemiromanticEnby wrote

for me I don't feel male (my assigned gender at birth) at all so much that it physically hurts to say im male and I also dont feel female or anything else. of course im scared time may change that but for now I see myself as an agender transfem which is what i am most comfortable with.

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c0debabe wrote

For me its... "Whatever you were expecting of me, it's probably not that."

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