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SnowCode OP wrote

But I'd like to add that if you participate such partnerships/friendships you always should also reflect this relationship since it sometimes tends to lean to one side. It's not good for your own psych if you are always the helper, you may find yourself in a position where you are no longer able to share your complicated state of mind 'cause you think this could worsen the state of the other person (or stuff like that).

This. Yes, I don't know if I can vent to her because I don't want to make her have the burden of my own problems while she feels so down.

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