Thanks a lot for asking. She didn't kill herself (I cried of joy this morning). However she feels guilty about making me sad because of it (she said she was a coward for saying she would die, and coming back again) and still wants to die and cut. I don't know what to do, I just hope I'll be able to see her IRL sometime during this year maybe.

The thing is that some of the points expressed in "Navigating Crisis" here are spot on but hard to implement online.