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turquoise_hexagon_sun wrote

Reply to comment by catachresis in Getting ghosted sucks by catachresis

ohh i see what you mean. yes that is a tough situation because in person there's no real way to just check out of a convo, turn off notifications etc.

i think if it feels right its a good idea to just wait a couple days and then reach out to say that you want to keep talking but also will respect their space. that way you give them the opportunity to tell you if they're feeling socially overwhelmed or whatever. you're not obligated to do that though obviously... and they may not respond but then you will have been honest and open and that's all that you can rly do.

it's such a tough situation and im sorry this is happening to u. i wish it weren't so easy to just vanish. but that's the nature of meeting people online i guess

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catachresis OP wrote

Thank you. I sent them a text about an hour ago. It might have been better if I waited a few days but I I’m feeling better now that I sent that’s last text.

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