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existential1 OP wrote

That's quite the loop. My partner is like that a lot actually. Do you have anyone or any system that can help you break the cycle?

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existential1 OP wrote

Yeah. Sometimes I try to have my partner do thought experiments using the same language their using except flipped to a positive conclusion. It works like 3/5 times. I keep trying to add stuff to my toolkit to help that works for particular situations.

Maybe I'll try your singing thing. Sounds like it could be fun and could break things up a bit.

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