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leftous wrote (edited )

Absolutely, men need to face this.

However, immediately confronting men with "feminine" terms is the equivalent of telling a liberal "you have to join the proletariat struggle". These are charged terms that will immediately activate their conditioned defenses. Similarly, toxic masculinity has built in defense mechanisms to counter perceived femininity, e.g. reactively questioning someone's sexuality or strength, discrediting them as "not real men", etc.

I think only once men understand that 'femininity' is not a sign of weakness, fragility, or exclusive to women and instead see its real application - they will be able to confront their conditioned beliefs about it. To give a leftist analogy, it would be like oppressed workers becoming conscious of their exploitation and how organizing can help them. Only once they achieve this consciousness would they come to terms with the fact anti-leftist and anti-union propaganda was a ploy to beat them into submission.

I am not sure about resources on toxic masculinity, but would be interested to learn and read more as well.

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