The top comment is an excellent crystallization of why I feel illegitimate as a lesbian. I don't know who this person but I think she's stunning in all the pics of her. But I guess if I like some of them, according to the commenter, I'm a guy. Or at least half a guy.
I'm not looking to call anyone out or even looking for reassurance. Maybe they're spot on. But every time I say that I'm worried my attraction to women isn't "sapphic enough" I have a hard time explaining what I mean and I think here of I've found an example. Some people say "there's no wrong way to be a lesbian, there's no wrong way to be a woman". But it seems to me that in some circles there absolutely is a wrong way. And apparently I fall into that category, so now I feel like crap.
I'm so sorry to link Reddit but when I talked about this before I felt like I couldn't explain what I was referring to. This I think expresses it in case I had confused anyone before.