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yeah, that was my thinking-- the name was funny, but i was primarily envisioning a space for trans women to talk about dating culture/experiences and didn't want to exclude anyone who could benefit from that. I don't think discussing sexuality should be off limits though, for many of us it's very connected, which is why I tried to clarify that it's about both and anyone who wants to be here should feel welcome

Fair point.

I'm sure romantic aces and sexual aros would probably benefit from being involved here, if they wanted to

Because masc gay dudes and trans men aren't the target audience here, so their inclusion is pointless. TBH I'm sketch about inviting aces to a discussion about sex for their comfort and ours, but whatever.