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Catsforfun wrote

People are threats to others as a result of their sexual attitudes and behaviors. Not because of their gender identity. I have definitely been sexually abused by transwomen and she had zero concept of how she even broke consent and had zero ability to talk about/process/own up to it, which is more terrifying to me than the actual assaults.

Not that anyone who has ever sexually assaulted/abused me has had the ability to own up to or talk about it.

I can hear that you are really traumatized rn and I feel for you.

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amongstclouds wrote (edited )

Not because of their gender identity.

I have definitely been sexually abused by transwomen (despite talking about some one in particular.)

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Catsforfun wrote

I'm unclear if you are trying to ask me a question.

I think that one of my exes was a closeted transwoman, but I'm unwilling to seek them out to ask. So I want to make room for the possibility. The other was def is, and god I loved her to pieces, but she was very abusive.

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amongstclouds wrote

I think that one of my exes was a closeted transwoman, but I'm unwilling to seek them out to ask. So I want to make room for the possibility.

I think that one of my exes was closeted

They abused me

This isn't about gender.

Transwomen and someone who I THINK WAS A TRANS WOMAN were abusive.

WHO I THINK WAS WAS A TRANS WOMAN

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Catsforfun wrote

leave me alone. Im processing massive amounts of trauma.

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amongstclouds wrote

I'm not trying to hound you, but I'm REALLY tired of people assuming I'm gonna assault them.

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Radtranswoman14 OP wrote

People are threats to others as a result of their sexual attitudes and behaviors. Not because of their gender identity.

They didn't imply trans people are out to get anyone, they explicitly said otherwise.

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amongstclouds wrote

and someone who I THINK WAS A TRANS WOMAN were abusive.

Yeah, this is the part I'm talking about. It's totally not about gender identity, but this person abused me, and I THINK they are (insert possible abusive identity here).

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