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asterism OP wrote

You can make a choice without the litmus test if you want. You can decouple your thinking from that.

One piece of advice: your emotions are information. How you feel is as important as what your partner does and what you do.

This is incredibly helpful. and I appreciate it.

I mean can I really bear this for another decade and a half. Fucking hell. Its definitely going to take some deliberation for me not to have a reactive response.

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