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figwasp wrote

I was a really sheltered kid and didn’t do anything fun in HS. (I did “rebel” once to skip school in a snowstorm specifically to lose my virginity and it sucked), and I didn’t go to college until my 20’s so I was ready to experience some debauchery.

I drank but hated it (and now 20+ years later I don’t drink because it just makes me feel like garbage), and preferred weed when I could get it. I tried a couple other drugs and they weren’t as exciting as I expected from the hype, but I’m glad I tried them. I was really slutty too.

The only thing I regret about the debauchery was that it took so long to try it out AND I think I put myself into too many dangerous situations because I was either making up for lost time or making up for having such controlling parents (or both).

Everyone deserves to explore themselves and have a good time. I hope you get a chance too.

I’m sorry your wife thinks porn and masturbation are cheating. She’s wrong and that sucks.

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asterism OP wrote

I did do one thing fun in HS. Which was breaking into all the locked places amd exploring. probably one of my best memories from that time.

I think I am too much an overthinker to get into too much trouble but I do have to be careful when I am incredibly bored. more than once I have done foolish things to alleviate my boredom.

I think I am aiming to do a bucketlist item once a month until I run into certain ones then I will have to reevaluate probably.

yeah I struggle with my relationship with my wife because maintaining it involves giving up many freedoms. Somedays I feel I have stolkholm syndrome. No simple solutions (that I like anyway)

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