Submitted by BLVDE in AskTransgender

Not the first time i have the impression that i might be gender fluid, but i'm primed on being feminine which makes everything really hard though i actually always feel better when i just aknowledge whatever genderfeeling is there at the moment

But yeah, confused about whether it's fluidity or dysphoria or if multiple genders are fighting each other (which could also be some plural thingy)

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Tequila_Wolf wrote

Depends on a zillion things, most of the time I don't have the luxury to let myself feel gender. Too busy navigating what little space there is for it, among everything else.

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BLVDE OP wrote

and the other small amount of time when you do feel gender?

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Tequila_Wolf wrote

It's a little bit like how it's hard to explain what a colour is. Except more tactile, because it's about my body in space rather than what my eyes are taking in from outside.

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BLVDE OP wrote

i dont get if i somtimes get it from lukin at me -> if my filin coms from wat i percive, rater tan wat is ter

or in oter words
if im usd to x aperance bein x, terfor i fil leik x

tou somteims it helps wen i just acept it, wile oter teims my masculin seid also dosnt leik te luk

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SparklyElly wrote

I'm not genderfluid, but I did think I was for a period of time. I felt like it was unfair that it wasn't socially acceptable to do things other genders could and that I wanted the option to do those things. I thought that separating things by gender was silly and that anyone should be able to act/dress/be another gender if they want to. This line of thinking led me to explore my gender more and discover that I really only wanted to identify with one gender (I now identify as trans) rather than identify with any others.

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BLVDE OP wrote

ye, sounds leik a trans fin to me & probably not genderfluidity

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fortmis wrote

My gender identity is probably best explained by Ursula Le Guin's Left Hand of Darkness -- the people of the planet of Gethen are ambisexual and shift through genders almost like seasons, as well as in relation to whomever they're coupling with 😈💋

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BLVDE OP wrote

tat sounds biutiful
lets si if i manag to rid tat buk

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