I was inappropriately harassed and groped by a drunk woman recently. As a man who considers himself a feminist, I felt shocked and violated when this was happening to me. I felt paralyzed because the friends of the woman were doing nothing to stop her, and the female friends I was with were too scared to react to avoid seeming "crazy" (their words). The groper just walked away afterwards.
I am just wondering how do you think, as a man, it would be appropriate to react? How do I defend myself if I'm being sexually attacked by a woman? I don't want to be violent. But I can not accept being violated like that and feeling helpless.