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Zzzxxxyyy wrote

I grew up in a religious community that shamed masterbation. It was psychologically traumatizing. It’s also abilist. .

I wouldn’t doubt that this movement has roots in Puritanism if you trace them back far enough.

It’s always those who are most successful romantically who espouse it’s virtues.

If anything we need a profap movement. While we’re at it, how about a non-exploitive porn movement?


nofapper OP wrote

Would that be like volunteer porn? Not for profit?


Zzzxxxyyy wrote

Or maybe porn where people communicate what the like, don’t like, etc. I don’t think I’ve seen a single porn where a guy responds, inquires about, or changes his behavior in response to a woman’s pain during sex.

I understand porn is about fantasy, but not all (or many) women like rough, painful, or degrading sex.

I can’t tell you how many women complain about how selfish and insensitive men are in bed. But I have to guess they’re learning to be that way from porn.