Idk how to word this, but I'm noticing a trend. First thing that comes to mind is cutesy lolita stuff (why even use that word to describe the aesthetic when Lolita was a book about a pedophile?!), heightened-pitch voices, giggling, wide-eyed innocence/naivety, you know what I mean? I don't get how that's not creepy. Something that just upset me was I saw in a picture one of my favorite burlesque performers did an act where she's wearing a diaper and has a pacifier. Then I remembered a music video by performer named Aja and one scene they're in underwear and have a bottle and pacifier. These are just two disturbing examples that are on my mind. I don't get how this passes as okay.