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Enkara wrote

Estranged kentucky relatives from the father's side ("father" who disappeared from my life 15+ years ago) are trying to get in contact with me and sib(s), it makes me full of feelings, and not particularly good ones.

Also they think I'm [deadname] and [wrong gender] and I don't think I have the energy to deal with that shit right now, also at least a couple of them are trump voters.

Good reason to just ignore their entire existance... sure some of them might be alright, but why bother?

Also my grandfather molested my father so idk if he's still alive but I don't care to know him.

All this shit just re-opens old wounds of parental abandonment and fuck it fuck it fuck it.

Video games help.

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tlckl wrote

Estranged kentucky relatives from the father's side ("father" who disappeared from my life 15+ years ago) are trying to get in contact with me and sib(s), it makes me full of feelings, and not particularly good ones.

Oh boy, tell me about it. I know this waaaay too well... My dad's a fucking cop...

Also my grandfather molested my father so idk if he's still alive but I don't care to know him.

That just makes it harder, wow.

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ziq wrote

Owch. I feel like burrying my head in the sand or melting into a puddle just reading about it.

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heck wrote

i hope things get better for you. i have my own issues with my paternal extended family, so i feel you.

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ziq wrote

Just got done hand pumping chemicals out of barrels into smaller containers. Work blows.

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not_AFX_lol wrote

Just finished up my AP testing (with microeconomics- the irony) and I'm feeling charitable toward the world again.