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DaisyDisaster wrote

I don't really search for people to date. I just go where there are people who want to discuss things I'm interested in and sooner or later a relationship happens.

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GaldraChevaliere wrote (edited )

In flagrant opposition to monogamy. I love whoever I love, and navigate having multiple separate and interconnected relationships. The two partners I'm closest with and have been with the longest are with eachother too, and one of them has a girlfriend outside of us. I'm talking with a woman I like about doing something casual, and my relationship with my best friends borders on the romantic. I don't see a point to boxing my feelings and categorizing them any more than I already do. Earning my trust is earning my love, and I express it however that person needs it expressed.

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Pop wrote

So far as an approach goes, for me it's (ethical) nonmonogamy, and as fluid as possible while being ok with some structure will build up over time

Beyond that, since any relationship is made together with someone, it depends on them also what our thing looks like

not sure if I answered question

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robottroymacclure wrote

like alot of our common language the term, "dating" is worn out. how people interact these days is different than it was 10 or twenty years ago. intimacy is harder to find and relationships are more transactional than they have ever been in modern times. dating is like a pass time that some enjoy and others do not, like board games or table tennis. theres no reason for people to have close relationships when they have so many other means of distracting themselves from life. so the question is, why bother?

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ETERNAL_PRISONER wrote

I don't date, because 99,8% of people doesn't suit to me. I'd rather prefer to stay alone, than wasting my life with a brain dead idiot.

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