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Blackbeard wrote

I definitely feel this. I live far away from most of my family and friends, and I keep feeling like I ought to reach out to them more, and catch up. But, I really just like my alone time, and I find it hard to initiate the contact.

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dele_ted wrote (edited )

Very much this. It's odd that so many on this site can agree, I'm usually alone with this issue.

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mofongo wrote

That plus my monotone tone of voice and stiff body language. Makes me feel trying as a lost endeavor.

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Blackbeard wrote

I'm a horrible procrastinator. It's something I really want to work on, because I think it would really simplify my life and make it easier. It's probably the personality trait that bothers me the most about myself. I'm going to start being more proactive later this afternoon. Well, maybe tomorrow...

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dele_ted wrote

Also one of the most difficult things to change, at least in my experience.

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red_pepper wrote

Self-love. I'm too hard on myself and I know it, but I can't seem to stop.

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Catsforfun wrote (edited )

Reparent your inner child. Talk to yourself like you would a kid or a friend

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ladyanarchist wrote

Patience, especially when it comes to parenting. I also need to work on practicing the ukulele every day.

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DissidentRage wrote

I need to find more motivation to do things I want to do. I just have no energy lately, no fight left to put into my life.

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ziq wrote

I need to stop being so vindictive and I need to learn to communicate better.

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robottroymacclure wrote

they say that if you change yourself you change the world but i don't see the difference between the two. even the smallest decision i make is really important to me but just trying to make the right decision once is like going against my own nature. i'm am far too lazy especially regarding social issues but that's kind of my lot in life. i'm also in the "too hard on myself" club. :)

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imnoturfriend wrote

The list is endless. Perfection is... unobtainable, but a goal. It depends on the day.Today? I'm lazy (my dog needs walked) Fearful of socializing, even internet (people here are pretty disproving, but I'm trying) hateful (I'm quick to respond to hate, hatefully) I need to stop being so easy to respond to trolls. Finance (I'm deficit spending). Personally, I'm trying to understand other people and their culture. I'm not good at it, but immersion or repetition is helpful to me. Tomorrow might be different answers

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EVENNN wrote

Should just stop caring so much about what people think tbh. I think a small amount is healthy, but I get wayyyyy too bothered if someone slags me off or makes some comment.

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Dumai wrote

i need to learn how to be productive without ritalin and constant multi-tasking between work and internet.

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dele_ted wrote

Friendliness. When it comes to certain issues, such as people fucking up my possessions or otherwise being unintentional idiots, I have a really hard time getting angry. My friend has been nagging me about it for a year now.

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jadedctrl wrote

Same here! I find it really hard to get angry at people, even when I should.

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Cosmicsloth42 wrote

Right now I need to work on taking more immediate action, I get comfortable way to easy and then it is hard for me to go out and initiate a project or activity I would like to start.

Like, I moved this year so I have to start my garden all over again. Accept I didn't...just felt like to much work! Really need to fix that.

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selver wrote (edited )

Social interaction. I find it really hard to actually express myself with other people, without just kinda blanking out. Working on it, but it's been a lifelong battle.