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Haruki wrote

The real waste of time was OP all along.

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Fool wrote

The real waste of time was the friends we made along the way.

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Basil OP wrote

Hey, that's what my parents called me too!

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Basil OP wrote (edited )

Yeah that's fair. Nah, she was leading me on. We dated twice, on and off, and even when we were on different continents for Uni she said she wanted to cuddle with me and stuff like that, but then would change her mind two weeks later and say that she didn't really want to talk to me anymore, then want to be friends again after another two weeks. I probably should've realized that it was going nowhere, but oh well. There was definitely a time when I interpreted someone trying to be my friend as leading me on, and I regret that time, but it wasn't with this girl.

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Basil OP wrote

Yeah, that's true, and a better way to see it. I guess I'm just still frustrated about it and letting that seep in more than I should. I think I'm having trouble accepting that I probably won't get anything close to closure, that I just have to let it go, which has always been hard for me. But I'm gonna do my best.

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