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ziq wrote (edited )

i'm not holding anything over your head. you said something that upset me (calling me gross for thinking someone is being stupid) so i told you so. then you accused me of not telling you when u upset me so i listed some of the times i've directly told you that you upset me. that's not holding something over your head, it's trying to defend myself against an untrue allegation

Because you're not acting like you are interested

idk what made you think i have any ability to maintain relationships. i have no friends, i've said it countless times.

the reason i stopped talking to you on matrix is because it makes me deeply uncomfortable to share unpleasant details about my life with you or anyone, and it feels like you take that as a slight against you, when it has nothing to do with you. i don't want to have to articulate into words horrible things that i'm trying to not even think about and every time you ask me to talk about my life it makes me deeply uncomfortable, so i stop checking matrix as the whole app has become triggering to me. i don't want to explain how i feel to people or even have to think about it.

So are we friends or not

our relationship is whatever it's always been. me withdrawing from social interaction even more than usual is not a judgement on you, it's an inability to manage social interaction

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