Abstracting from the recent meta post, how us as anarchists would deal with "justice"? How to build a healthy and safe space where our relationships can develop outside any authoritarian, moralistic, shame/guilty driven ethics?
Ostracize is just permanent until the person is back, and then how we would react? After 1 year, 10 years or 30 years? Time makes a difference? Or we expect the person to walk around out there like the eternal wandering pharisee? There is time to Restore and there is time to Transform.
Sorry for the bad timing of the post
NoPotatoes wrote
I treated my ex pretty badly. Should I expect her to forgive me and welcome me back into her life? Should I make any attempt to contact her? Or should I do my best to keep myself out of her way, hoping that the space between us will help her heal?
The world is a large place. Much larger than any one human. I don't think we need to share our space with those that have hurt us.