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kin OP wrote

Fair point. Navigating through accountability and amendments is not easy.

I see sometimes people proposing the offender answering face to face to the victim, apologizing as part of the process but this is unreal if we take into consideration the "crimes" and abuses that can happen. I agree that the focus should be on healing and full support of the victims and the other affected parts, giving space and safe environment that can protect against the other.

And ostracize can be a good ethical move, but some people will only settle with revenge. How is the best approach we can have? I like when bolo'bolo brings yaka, like a sanctioned and honorable consensual duel as a mean to solve "disputes", but this fall short with most of our intimate relationships.

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