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existential1 wrote (edited )

I dont think about it at all. Thats the privelege of cisness i suppose.

EDIT: In all seriousness, i was mistaken for opposite gender many times growing up since i had cornrows and white people cant differentiate black children from one another. So Ive always felt comfy in my own understanding of self on that level. It isnt really open to other people's opinions.

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edmund_the_destroyer wrote

"I dont think about it at all. Thats the privelege of cisness i suppose."

Me too. I think if I had the same views of gender thirty years ago that I do now, I would probably have identified as non-binary. I don't think of myself as "male" and not "female" in any significant sense. The only reason I don't adopt non-binary now is habit. One of my kids is NB.

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