You're not wrong, but people with anime avatars on Discord are very bad, and yeah a lot of them are younger trans people, they are still bad though.

I got banned from several anarchist discords and called truscum for not agreeing that "transsexual" is a slur and using it as a label for myself, and for saying that afab folks using the term "transwoman" for themselves is appropriation, and these were trans folks with anime avatars. I'm not truscum, I'm just a trans person who lived through the 90's lol.

Talking about anime, liking anime, posting anime shit, is all OK and allowed though.