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noordinaryspider wrote

Thank you, ziq, and I can honestly say that I have "Been there done that bought the T-shirt" because the one I got when #OccupyBaby and I went camping with the most mainstream HS group you'd ever want to find says "Educational Anarchy" on it.

I bought it in 2011, #OccupyBaby is male, his name doesn't start with a "J", and even if it did, it would be pronounced like "Hey (Dr.) Seuss!!!!!" but this time last year I had a community and now I have to explain that I'm not Michelle Duggar but I am me so something's changed very radically very quickly.

I don't think it's a "generation gap" either.

I don't want a "job" in the childcare industry and I won't hoam skull your kid to Harvard for less than you pay the people who scrub your toilets and have sex with your husbands even if you try to throw a goat in to sweeten the deal, I'm just trying to get you to see what's right in front of you.

Point taken wrt comments on Matrix, ziq, I'll be good.

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ziq wrote

I'm sorry, I have trouble understanding you. I wasn't trying to make any point by not replying on meta matrix, I just didn't know what to say.

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noordinaryspider wrote

No worries. I just don't do well with language is all and English is the best I can do right now.

I just meant that I admire you and have trouble not wanting to "parent" you because of life stuff.

But in the way you described it here, not a Mommywebz Babycenter Michelle Duggar sort of way.

It's been a rough few weeks and I need to spend more time on self-care but I love this place and don't want you to do anything different at all except pace yourself and smack my cub around if he shows up before he's 16. I don't think he can but I'm back to boring old Vanilla Debian for humility's sake anyway.

XY friend of mine who isn't more than a year or two younger than me is going to be a new daddy again so what do I know about XY bodies, lol.