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dele_ted wrote

On a related by separate note, I grew up in a pretty messed up space and I'm aware of a small handful of things already that I do badly that I don't think I can actually make better because of how my brain is wired.

I know exactly what you mean. I've had the exact same feeling of being stuck with bad habits and traits that i would rather be without, but with time i have managed to slowly handle them one by one, and have yet to find something i cannot change at all. I think the key is just to pay close attention, always keep whatever you want to change written behind your ear and stick with a healthy belief that you can change. Nothing is hardcoded, in my experience at least.

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Tequila_Wolf wrote

That would be nice! I'm working on it. I think one reason why it seems so hard is that there's just so much to learn that slowly handling those one by one seems far away.