Submitted by Catsforfun in Accountability (edited )
theyve been doing it for years. I can identify 4 victims including myself, several i couldn't. some were randos in stores, as recent as yesterday.
they had one assault they prepetrated that they have sort of dealt with, i helped then a little w accountability (admitting it and processing a bit, but i had to catch them in the lie first) and they are supposed to see a therapist soon. they find the event hard to talk abt.
I'm not on good terms w the other victims of the creepshots and dont want to see it go carceral anyway, but idk how to deal with this when he denied it before and i believed him. i would now too if it had all added up and I hadn't gone thru the whole phone. its porn addiction. albums of bell delphine and soooooooooooooooo many random insta screencaps. like the photos is 99% egirls.
no idea what to do when he gets so defensive i get scared and is such an adamant liar. He has gotten verbally abusive w me before on several occasions.
wwyd? I actually believe in this person deep down...
no_ wrote
Weird how they can't talk about their action yet have no problem doing them. Unfortunately I doubt they will see a therapist and even if they do, it doesn't guarantee progress.
Too many red flags. Personally, I would get out of that relationship.