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roanoke9 wrote
Hierarchy, Patriarchy and the continued existence of the state that protects rapists from self-defense actions of those they target as well as deterring preventative measures of all kinds.
Exlurker wrote
The pressure to 'get laid' before you're 20. I can remember the pressure to do a one-night stand or I'd be alone forever the moment I turned 25.
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Exlurker wrote (edited )
That's not what I meant, I meant I had societal pressure to have sex at all.
I definitely do not thing getting laid is the same as raping anymore and my 'last resort' was going to be paying a prostitute for the record.
As another correction, it wasn't so much 'being alone forever' as it was being judged by others for being a virgin.
Please, maybe I deserve blame for thinking like that but I was never so heartless to think of doing it, I was in a mind paradigm of No Sex = Neckbeard = Lower then trash. Now I think Rapists are much worse then Neckbeards.
I didn't even want to have sex until others pressured me. I was fine just masturbating.
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Exlurker wrote
I realize this now but I had to go through the Seven stages of grief including bargaining and I realize this is also part of my conditioning.
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Exlurker wrote
I realize now that I was mostly Regurgitating Incel propaganda that I heard when I was a teenager rather then thinking for myself.
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Exlurker wrote (edited )
No, I didn't try rape anyone, I just tried pickup lines and failed.
Until I was shamed I was fine masturbating until they told me it was pathetic.
asterism wrote
Men
patriarchy
power dynamics.
smth like that